Why?

Ever wonder why some people are just so bitter?  No matter what you do or say to them; nothing makes them happy. Well, I've come across several people in my lifetime like this. I always gave them the benefit of the doubt. I thought maybe they were going through something that I didn't understand. I finally realized and it took me years to do so; that these certain individuals just prefer to live this way.  They seem to enjoy to wallow in their own misery.

No matter what accomplishments I have made or done. There is or never will be any acknowledgment or praise from them. Yet something worse; criticism. Seriously, how can you put someone down for doing something they love to do? Why would you? People as such are clearly labeled heartless. Do you ever think they feel any type of love, admiration or joy; ever?

No one knows what another person is going through or has gone through in life. Whatever it was or is should not make you bitter towards the world and those
who love you. I guess it's easier said than done. I personally have held onto a tremendous amount of hate to certain individuals. Over the course of time, learning to let go of the anger & pain makes everything so much easier.

WHY? WHY? won't these particular people do the same? Is it easier to live with hate than love?  I've accepted the reality of how blinded I have been on being generous to those who don't ever appreciate anything. There is already so much hate and ignorance in the world. I will never understand why people hold onto such negativity? Do they not ever get tired of being bitter? Why would anyone prefer to be alone and miserable instead of enjoying life? Oh well, whatever I will have no part of their lives any longer.

You can only do so much for people. In the end it always has to be their choice to help themselves. I prefer to be happy inside and out. I wish this for them always.

Till tomorrow..... )0(