Understand & Learn Why

Time after time I've seen & often wondered why WOMEN are so quick to blame MEN for everything that goes wrong in their life. (In some cases it just may have been the action of infidelity; however everyone does have a choice to say NO). If a man is a great, respectful, loyal and honest person & partner yet somehow cannot make his beloved happy anymore; he either leaves her or ends up having an affair on her. Why is the woman BITTER? I understand that you most likely wouldn't have expected it but when you neglect, reject or mistreat your partner WHY will you be the one to have ALL the hate towards him?

 

I am not justifying "Cheating" or anything of that sort. There is no excuse. I am merely trying to put into perspective that It's NOT ALWAYS HIS fault. Have you women ever stopped to wonder if you pushed him into that situation with your ways? Harshful comments, belittlement, unaffectionate, lack of communication, constant insecurity, jealousy, fear of abandonment ETC. Not too many women take the time to even think of these kind of things but it is a major factor in sending your partner to anothers arms & just ruining what you believe to be a great relationship.

 

There are so many psychological factors out there for you to understand & accept. I have been reading & watching NUMEROUS relationships going through the same scenario as one another and MOST of the WOMEN are bashing the hell out of men. They are making themselves out to be the perfect woman and the man will find no one better. If that were the case then WHY did he cheat or leave?? Not trying to bash women; because I am one but I am really tired of seeing, reading, hearing ALL that I have said above.

 

WOMEN need to stand up and take action for their BEHAVIOR & RESPONSIBILITIES in the relationship falling apart. DON"T waste your time on "GETTING REVENGE" or MAKING HIM PAY the only person that you should care about is YOURSELF. Take the time to LEARN things of yourself & what triggers your "unhealthy behavior" when it comes to relationships.

 

Once you have done so perhaps the world can be a little more at ease with just a tad less "Troubled Women"..... By the way this does goes for MEN also, but statistics have shown 85% are females who "literally" ruin there own relationships. Begin your journey to find out why.............. Neena44